My boryfriend puts up with a lot of my emotional crap. I’ve realized after an argument with him that the only way I show my love to him is sex. So if he does not get sex often he always questions the realtionship i know how it sounds but it’s not like that we have been through a lot together. Most of the time i’m going through something and he’s there for me. Now i want to do something small and inexpensive that really expresses my love for him. Any ideas ar welcome we both have an open mind.
Um, have you tried preparing dinner for him? Cook his favorite dish and give him a really nice gift. It doesn’t need to be expensive. Get him something that he’ll really appreciate and will remind him of you.
Good luck! I’ll give you another idea if I can think of another one. ^_^
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It’s good that you have an open mind, and he does too. It only means you have even more ways to show that special can also come from the heart as well.
Have you ever thought about a card, just stating the facts: that you appreciate his love for you, sticking with you no matter what, and that you will love him forever and a day. A card, a nice dinner.
Be creative!! Make an IOU for a back massage or sharing a bath together, or to shut that phone off, and enjoy a movie together.
you can also catch him off guard, by putting on some soft instrumental music, and when he opens the door, you are standing there with a single rose, and a smile that says you thank God that he’s yours.
Emotions can play a big part here. This is where money and sex have no room to stand. Come from your heart, express yourself verbally, and once you do, the romance will come from deep within you.
Another idea, is a teddybear from around the house, with a card and a rose on the bed, let him smell his favorite dessert baking, and you come to him all glassy eyed, like a person that love him until the end of time. Put in that card, vows that you’d make to him as if you were married, let him know how he’s appreciated.
Here’s something else…a picture of yourself, on his side of the bed, a rose, representing his soft side; a candy bar to represent how sweet he is, and 1 IOU for dedicating a whole day of spending time with him, forgetting everyone and everything else.
Or take him for an ice cream cone, sharing it, and if he asks why or what’s the special occasion, just say “it’s because I’m crazy about you, I love you with my entire being, and I cant imagine my life without you being my Angel.” THAT will leave him speechless.
Wish you luck and I hope this helps.
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