My guy wont spend time w/ me.?

8 Responses to My guy wont spend time w/ me.?

1. bkwrm1 | January 31, 2010 at 1:00 pm |

   tell him about it & say that u really need him, then he mite change some

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2. mcds11211 | January 31, 2010 at 2:15 pm |

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   He’s spending time with another woman sadly enough…
   You are no longer attractive to him and many men are repulsed by pregnant women unfortunately. Not trying to be mean but I am a man and what you described is what I did once right down to the T.

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3. catmitten | January 31, 2010 at 3:09 pm |

   talk to hem

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4. NOT TELLIG!!! | January 31, 2010 at 4:10 pm |

   Let him know that you really love him. I’m no professional, but let him know how you feel about him. Invite him over to YOUR place. Spend time with each other.

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5. T.C. Robson | January 31, 2010 at 5:14 pm |

   It sounds like he’s a bit freaked out by the pregnancy. My father did the same thing when my Mom was pregnant with me. It’s a new responsibility for him, something he’s having trouble comprehending. He’s relaying this by being very distant. I’d take a time with him, sit him down, and inform him that no matter what happens, you two (and soon three) are going to be okay. Also let him know that you really need him throughout this time. But be sure to put it across to him that if he doesn’t halt his distant actions towards you, that you are willing to pick up and find someone who will support, love and help you through this time. That’s just my thoughts.

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6. justinyantis | January 31, 2010 at 6:06 pm |

   I have a hunch that he’s nervous about becoming a father, he may be trying to distract himself from what he’s going to have to do as a father. I think he’ll get over this eventually, he may just need time to adjust. Talk more about plans with him, try to get him really excited about his child. He has a lot of things he could have a say in, from the baby’s toys, to the clothes, and what color the room wiil be painted. If he helps you with all that, he may be spending so much time with you that you get sick of him.

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7. scrapmom | January 31, 2010 at 7:10 pm |

   Some men take a while to adjust to the fact that u are still a woman and not just a mother or mother to be.My ex husband went through the same thing.I would suggest talking to him about it and maybe talking to a counselor.He also may have fears about fatherhood….is a big step. Take care of yourself and your unborn child. Good luck.

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8. chillylady_2 | January 31, 2010 at 8:01 pm |

   well youll probably make things worse if ya push it!!!!I wont tell ya nothig except go with the flo and good luck!!!!!!!

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