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because they stat falling love with some one else other than you
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Because they are really insecure little boys who have to play games to make sure someone likes them before they have the guts to move on. That way if things don’t work out with the person they cheat with they can fall back on the one they are married to. If things seem good with the one the cheated with then they decide it is time to divorce because they don’t need the fall back protection.
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leave that azzhole, and then get his azz for child support and alamony, that should serve his cheating azz right. good luck girl, and you and your baby will be just fine with out a scumbag like that in your lifes.
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hes scared. now that there is a baby in the picture he is confused and probably thinks his life is over. Being with a bartender and lying about it is just a man thing. good for u not going to his parents house. it should of been at mutal grounds. he is trying to sow his wild oats. he was apparentally unhappy for some reason to have served divorce papers. if u dont want a divorce suggest marriage counseling or something. u need to talk to him and he needs to b a man and really tell u from his own mouth y. be strong for u and ur unborn child. thats most important.
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This is why you don’t get married and knocked up at 18. I think you both need to grow up. Maybe he was not the best choice in husbands. Maybe his friends need to keep out of your business. I say good ridence, better to find out now than 10 years from now. Find a real man.
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He was not mature enough for marriage and now you have to cut your losses and make a better decision with the next guy. There are always signs when a man is not mature enough for marriage and you just didn’t pick up on them until it was to late. Once he got married he felt trapped and like he had not fully lived his life. Eventually he will be ready mentally and emotionally to settle down but by then you might already have someone else. Marriage is a big step and he took it tooooo lightly.
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Sounds like you married a boy, a man would not do this crap.
If he doesn’t grow up and start hanging around the people he should hang with YOU that is, I see nothing good coming from this. I sure you will not lead him down the wrong road as his friends are at this time. You need to have a heart to heart tell him whats going on and why you feel like this. Tell him time to be a Man and put his self and his body in order of priority the and it should be you and the baby and all else in line he should be per paired to pay child support because you can not live this way. Good luck hope he gets his act together.
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Hunny, you got him right where you want him, if you don’t want him…get a divorse and find someone who loves you for you!
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a man will only cheat if he is not getting what he needs at home.if he wants sex and you are always too tired or not in the mood then he goes out and a woman offers him what he has to beg from you of course he will cheat.men are sexual and in need of attention way more than woman think.if you blow him off and another woman pays alot of attention to him and pumps up his ego and wants to sleep with him its a done deal.if you want to keep him,give him lots of attention,make him feel important and needed all the time and give him sex every day and i promise he will never cheat on you cuz most women wont do that on a daily basis.any relationship requires work on both parts.if you are that woman for him he will kiss your butt to keep you and make you happy.
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To me, he has a very imature behavior, does not know what he wants and obviously does not bring you much.
If you are strong enough for this (with young child etc), see if you can leave him and start a fresh life.
Good luck
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Because he’s a selfish, self-centered a$$hole.
Run. Run as far and as fast as you can and have as little to do with this man as you possibly can.
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