my boyfriend and i were best friends for almost 10 years when he decided that we should be more than friends.i wasn’t interested because he wasnt my type. He persued me for over a year until i finally gave in. we were happy together for over two years .one day we had fight ( not unusual for us ) and he dissappeared i couldnt find him anywhere. i assumed he wasn’t answering the cell because he wans’t ready to talk yet. the next day he came over we made up and everything was fine . about 3 weeks after that he told me that the night we had the fight he spent the night at this girls house with a bunch of other people. said he got so drunk he dosen’t remember what happened. this girl was calling him for about 6 month b4 the incident and i kept telling him she has a crush on him but he just thought i was jelous. i’m not the jelous type nor was iinsecure. she turns up pregnant.i left him.and now i’m insecure because i dont know what went wrong.
If one fight made him go running to another girl, then it wasnt ment to be. Don’t beat yourself up over it…there is still something out there for you. And this may sound shallow, but maybe it was just a one night mistake, and I hope you have tried to remain friends. Best of luck.
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Because they are selfish pigs that don’t know where to draw the line and sorry to say they could not be pigs if stupid women didn’t keep taking them back!!!!!!!!!
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Because they are selfish pigs that don’t know where to draw the line and sorry to say they could not be pigs if stupid women didn’t keep taking them back!!!!!!!!!
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why do women always hold on to losers? once a cheater, always a cheater. you know, if he comes back to you, he would expect a high standard of treatment from you or else he will be running again. You really think you should stick to such a guy? Spare yourself some heartache and move on. You are better off single than holding on to a man like that.
you are holding onto a dream that is just yours. he does not feel the same way. 10 years may mean a lot to you. He might be tired.
move on.
my bitter experience.
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men are naturally polygamous… but at the end they would come back to what they call home… k? so don’t worry
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Ya know, people are alway’s using the “I was so drunk I don’t remember card”, I’ve been plastered a few times and I knew how to stop myself from making a mistake. If you truly love somebody you won’t cheat, drunk or otherwise!
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what went wrong was you chose a cheater, don’t beat yourself up.
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Men cheat because they can. Plain and simple: men are hard-wired to want as many sexual aprtners as they can get. Society doesn’t agree with this, but it is true. Since he decided to get back at you for the agument by cheating, take this sign very seriously. Should you be afraid that a discussion will turn to an argument for fear he will cheat again? Don’t be held hostage. Take control of yourself by putting your foot down and demanding to be treated with respect and dignity. Dump him.
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People cheat because they are selfish and there are selfish partners who will cheat along with them.
This is not a man/woman thing, unless all of these men are cheating with other men. They are cheating with women. Therefore, there are as many women cheaters as men.
Not everybody cheats on their partner, not everyone in an affair is married. But both parties are guilty of violating YOUR vows (if you were married, I see this was “just” a boyfriend)
It’s not a man/woman thing, it’s a character issue, and the character of both cheaters is the problem, not gender.
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