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why do husbands cheat then want a divorce?

my husband of just one year left me when i was carring ar child.he was off working in another state he was acting just fin and then called me and wanted a divorce then he changed his mind and told me he loved me with all his heart and would do anything for me.then when he came back he movied in with his parents and then started hanging around his friend that he grow up with.the called agine and told me we needed to talk about the babie.i didn’t show up becuase i wasn’t going over to his parents house so they could jump in to.then 2 weeks later his friend called and told me that he was at the bar with this bar tender that he was just messing around with.i went up there and asked him what the prob was and he told me he wasn’t with that girl and see knew we where married.she didn’t though becuase that guy that called me told me she didn’t know becuase he told her that we where just going out and he left.but he would lie to me and tell me they wasn’t together and then served divorce papers
he also told me that he wants in and out of my life just like my other sons father i don’t know why he would say that but i told him there’s no way that was going to happen.then he told me that he would try to get ower son becuase where ever he went i would follow.i really don’t understand him at all i’ve been doing that for a year now and his cheating on this on to and he’s not working . but when we where married he told me i didn’t have to work at all so i didn’t .
and i’m 30 and he’s 32 years old
when we go to court sence the babie is only a month old well the judge make us go to counsling????